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Are We Together Again or Not?
To Shawn and Katia,
My boyfriend and I used to live together, and after a brief separation, we have been talking about moving into together once again. Our interactions had returned to normal lately and we spent time together a few evenings a week. He said he was dead certain it's what he wanted. He wanted a lifetime together again. I gave my rental notice the next day in extreme excitement.
A few days later, everything started to fall apart (again). We spent four days apart and it was cold as hell. Today we talked after work and he told me that he sorted everything out and that he knew that he wanted to be with me for a lifetime (again). We agreed to meet in the morning but he never showed up. Then I got home to his e-mail telling me it's over. And his phone is turned off so I can't even reach him!
I need some advice.... what should I do?
-- Sally
Dear Sally,
Standing you up then sending the mean e-mail wasn't very gentle or kind.
However, your boyfriend seems to be really confused these days. He doesn't know what he wants. He loves you (that is obvious) but he needs to find himself. Men are like rubber bands. Give it time! Leave it alone (I know this is hard, but it's important!) and wait to see if he comes back to you.
If your boyfriend is set on the break up, then it just wasn't meant to be and life will go on- you will get over it, and you will be happy again. However don't blame him and whatever the case, DON'T BLAME YOURSELF! You are who you are and if he wants to join you on your life journey, then he will.
In the meantime, toughen up, get a grip, and get those daily tasks done Remember to exercise, eat well, and be productive at work. Go out with friends and socialize with others. Don't let his indecisiveness affect your dreams, hopes and desires.
-- Shawn & Katia
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