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Work, Sleep or Sex?
Dear Shawn and Katia,
My girlfriend and I both work long hours at our jobs and are finding little energy at night to keep things hot and steamy. While short sessions can sometimes be fun, we are missing the wild all-nighters we used to have. Do you have any tips on how we can re-energize our libidos and stay focused on other bedroom activities besides sleep?
-- Tired Theodore from Montreal
Dear Theordore,
Work is important, however, without sexual satisfaction on both ends, relationships are more likely to fail. Talk to her, but be honest and gentle. Don't place blame, but approach your girlfriend with the understanding that this is a problem that you need to solve together. First off, do you know if she feels the same way as you? If she doesn't, perhaps she would be open to planning more under-the-sheets time in her schedule if she knew you wanted it. If she agrees with you, and she is also unsatisfied, then you must both place importance into redesigning your schedules. Come to an agreement as to how often both of you would ideally like to have a good all-nighter sexathon, and book it. Let nothing come in the way of your plans. Then, turn these nights into creative and stimulating experiences, and you will both start to prioritize them more. Explore each others fantasies. Be honest and don't judge her fantasies. Instead, fulfill them! Talk about what turns her on, and find porn that she'd enjoy. Then let her watch it while you 'go down' on her. Keep an open mind and have fun together. Before you know it, you'll hardly make it home from work before jumping on each other!
-- Shawn and Katia
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