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How to Heat Things Up in the Bedroom Now That We Have Kids?
Hello Shawn and Katia,
I am a 45 year old married man with two kids. For the past few years my wife and I have having less passion and romance in our bedroom and I am afraid that we might be tiring of the same sexual routines. It just doesn't seem to be worth the effort as often as it used to be. Do you have any ideas or suggestions for us to help get things hot again without having to resort to Viagra?
-- Married in Iowa
Married in Iowa, With two little ones demanding your attention every day, it is important to make special times for lovemaking with your wife. Get a lock on your bedroom door (as well as on your night table drawer). Constantly tell your wife how attractive she is to you throughout the day. Then talk to her and be very honest about how you feel. What gets her in the mood? Invest in some special items to fill up the 'naughty' drawer. I would like to suggest some new kinds of edible water-based lubricants and porn movies (yes, many women enjoy porn too). Here's another idea: make a bath for her to relax in while you take care of the kids. Surprise her with a new sexy lingerie piece for her to wear underneath her robe when she gets out. Do you have a DVD or VCR in your room? Turn the sound down and make sure the kids are sleeping or being watched over by a friend/babysitter.
Also think about different locations. Rent a hotel room for a night and be creative. Use body paints, vibrators, role-play, and don't forget costumes! Share your fantasies with her and have her share hers- even if you've already heard them. Sex is a very important part of the relationship, so be open and willing to try new things, techniques, positions, and toys. Surprise her with a gift, listen to her, don't pressure her, and fulfill her fantasies in bed. Soon you will both be on your way back to a sexually satisfying relationship.
-- Shawn and Katia
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